Dating tips for guys first date
In the hours before your first date, make sure you distract yourself and you’ll help to keep those pre-date jitters at bay.
If a workout at the gym is your fail-safe stress reliever or a glowing tan is your ultimate confidence booster, you’re not alone; according to our Love Geist research, Londoners are twice as likely to hit the gym ahead of their first date while daters in the North West are 95% more likely to go for a sunbed or apply fake tan!
Before picking an outfit, you need to bear in mind what kind of date you’re going on, as well as external factors such as the weather, location and time of day.
While it’s essential to look the part, it’s equally as important to feel comfortable in what you’re wearing. Choose an outfit that both looks and feels great and you’ll exude confidence throughout your date.
If you date has taken time to choose the venue, compliment something about it such as the convenient location.
Another way to keep your date upbeat is to start conversations by asking questions about values and feelings rather than just facts; “what do you love about your job?
Ahead of your first date, preparation will play a big part in keeping your stomach from doing somersaults at the mere mention of your date’s name.
If you met on dating sites, it’s more than likely that you’ll know the basics about your date and like what you’ve seen.
Lateness in itself is not a deal-breaker, as long as you call or text to let your date know when you’ll be there.
” is far more revealing and will warrant a longer answer from your date than simply asking “what do you do? Don’t feel as though you need to cram every silence with a comment or question.
You might learn a thing or two by simply relaxing and listening to your date.
And, for extra measure, make sure you tell at least one friend or family member who you are meeting, where you are going and what time you expect to return – just so they know.
Cafes make for great first date venues; a cup of coffee allows for a short encounter or a longer meeting, depending on how well you hit it off!